Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Are girls too mean to eachother?
Oh yes! Rumors fly, caddy remarks sneak out while they pass each other in the hall, they make smear blogs to hurt others and put them down, the get in fist fights over looks and stealing boys. The competition to be the prettiest, smartest, most popular makes girls turn into vicious animals. I have even seen girls make fake web pages to get you to "add" them as a friend and then begin slowly talking to all of your friends trying to turn them all against them. They video themselves beating up another helpless girl and Putin them up on video networks. Girls get so scared and embarrassed that they stop going to school and are put in therapy and sometimes even lead to drugs and drinking to make the pain go away. A lot of time they are old friends that something silly happened then they decided to be enemies and make everyone else be their enemy as well. Girls going WAY out of the way to seduce a boyfriend just to be mean. It is just horrible, i was the victim to this in my school and CHURCH! wow never thought it would happen there! Prayer becomes a rumor mill for some which is a very sad truth. So be careful you reasons for telling people things that aren't about you.
Life goes on you shouldn't hold grudges towards people especially when they didn't do anything wrong. A lot of times girls will go after the new girlfriend of their ex with the mentality of "I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him either." It makes them feel like the next girl is superior to her when in reality she is if you stoop down to give her grief without doing anything wrong. I never understood this. High school girls are just ruthless and mean. So if you are one please be the one that rises above it all, its petty and will mean nothing when you get out of high school accept for those girls who mentally stay there the rest of their lives. They are the ones at the 10,20,30 year reunions still talking about grudges they had in high school and gossiping about people. Please don't be that girl!